職場(chǎng)英語(yǔ):面試中不要做這些肢體動(dòng)作!
職場(chǎng)英語(yǔ):面試中不要做這些肢體動(dòng)作!
英語(yǔ)交流非常重視,或者說(shuō)是非常重要的一個(gè)環(huán)節(jié)就是肢體語(yǔ)言。英語(yǔ)中有一句諺語(yǔ)是這樣說(shuō)的 :Actions speak louder than words。意思就是肢體語(yǔ)言比口述更有力量。世界上最大的獵頭公司Korn/Ferry International的人力資源專家的統(tǒng)計(jì)結(jié)論也顯示,“In a job interview,you will be virtually fully judged within the first 30 seconds, even before you start to talk.”(在工作面試中,你甚至還沒(méi)有開(kāi)始講話,面試官實(shí)際上已經(jīng)在30秒之內(nèi)對(duì)你有了全面的評(píng)價(jià)。)這其中:visual (what yousee,你所看到的)占55%;audio(what you hear,你所聽(tīng)到的)占38%;content(what is said,你們真正的談話內(nèi)容)占7%。
1. Don’t Make a Feeble First Impression It’s been said that employers can spot the right candidate within 30 seconds, and that’s all about body language. Be confident, but not arrogant. Walk in with a smile, without fiddling with anything you’re wearing, and give a firm handshake。
不要給人軟弱的第一印象
雇主能在30秒之內(nèi)確定面試者是否是合適的雇員,身體語(yǔ)言起到了非常重要的作用。要自信,但不要傲慢。走進(jìn)房間時(shí)面帶微笑,不要擺弄身上的物件,握手時(shí)堅(jiān)定有力。
2. Stop Touching Your Face!
Did you see the movie Contagionby Steven Soderbergh? A doctor played by Kate Winslet states that the average person touches their face between 2,000 and 3,000 times every day! Now, while you can’t stop yourself from doing this all the time, you must stop during the interview. We’re all guilty of touching our nose, our lips, and our forehead, but these all imply that we’re either nervous or dishonest。
不要摸臉
你看過(guò)那個(gè)電影嗎,史蒂芬·索德伯格導(dǎo)演的《病原體》?影片中,凱特·溫絲萊特扮演的大夫說(shuō),平常人每天都要觸摸自己的臉2000-3000次!也許你無(wú)法改掉這個(gè)習(xí)慣,但至少在面試時(shí)不要這樣做。觸摸鼻子,嘴唇和前額,表明你非常緊張或不誠(chéng)實(shí)。
3. Don’t Do the Leg Wobble
不要晃腿
It can be due to nervous energy, restless leg syndrome, or just bad habit. But whether you do it a little or a lot, do not do it in an interview. The message you’re sending is loud and clear — I’m anxious, and I can’t wait to get out of here。
晃腿的原因有很多:情緒緊張,不安腿綜合征,或是因?yàn)閴牧?xí)慣。但是,在面試時(shí),不要這樣做。這樣的身體語(yǔ)言傳達(dá)的信息非常明確——我焦慮不安,只想盡快逃離這里。