持續(xù)的努力會提高幸福水平（雙語）

　　摘要:最重要的一點(diǎn)也許是盡快克服“幸福水平一成不變”的想法，而應(yīng)該認(rèn)識到，持續(xù)的努力是可以提高幸福感水平的。柳波默斯基大膽認(rèn)為：“很多人并沒有努力為自己的情感生活傾注心血，但要付出的心血確實(shí)是巨大的。”

　　The day I meet Sonja Lyubomirsky, she keeps getting calls from her Toyota Prius dealer. When she finally picks up, she is excited by the news: she can buy the car she wants in two days. Lyubomirsky wonders if her enthusiasm might come across as materialism, but I understand that she is buying an experience as much as a possession. The hybrid will be gentler on the environment, and a California state law letting some hybrids use the carpool lane promises a faster commute between her coastal Santa Monica home and her job at the University of California, Riverside, some 70 miles inland.

　　那天我去看宋佳·柳波默斯基的時候，看到她在沒完沒了地接聽來自豐田普銳斯經(jīng)銷商的電話。她最終選定型號以后，一聽對方說兩天內(nèi)即可提車，竟然高興的不得了。不知柳波默斯基的熱情是否由于她的實(shí)用主義態(tài)度，但我很清楚，她購買的不僅是個人物品，還有一種新的生活體驗(yàn)。普銳斯是一種油電混合動力車，對環(huán)境的影響要溫和一些，而加州法律又允許某些油電混合動力車行駛集體用車道。她家在海邊城市桑塔莫尼卡，而上班地點(diǎn)則在加州大學(xué)瑞夫賽德分校(國內(nèi)多譯為河濱分校或?yàn)I河分校——譯者注)，相距大約70英里。能走集體車道，就意味著今后往來穿梭兩地要快一些。

　　Two weeks later, in late January, the 40-year-old Lyubomirsky, who smiles often and seems to approach life with zest and good humor, reports that she is "totally loving the Prius." But will the feeling wear off soon after the new-car smell, or will it last, making a naturally happy person even more so?

　　元月下旬，也就是柳波默斯基買車兩星期后，這個臉上常掛著微笑、總愿意為她的生活投入熱情和幽默的40歲女人，說她還是“百分之百喜歡她的普銳斯”。難道新車味道過了之后她的新車感覺一點(diǎn)都沒有減弱?抑或新車的感覺依然，而讓她這個天生的樂天派更開心?

　　An experimental psychologist investigating the possibility of lasting happiness, Lyubomirsky understands far better than most of us the folly of pinning our hopes on a new car--or on any good fortune that comes our way. We tend to adapt, quickly returning to our usual level of happiness. The classic example of such "hedonic adaptation" comes from a 1970s study of lottery winners, who a year after their windfall ended up no happier than nonwinners. Hedonic adaptation helps to explain why even changes in major life circumstances--such as income, marriage, physical health and where we live--do so little to boost our overall happiness. Not only that, but studies of twins and adoptees have shown that about 50 percent of each person's happiness is determined from birth. This "genetic set point" alone makes the happiness glass look half empty, because any upward swing in happiness seems doomed to fall back to near your baseline.

　　柳波默斯基是一個專門從事幸福感持久性研究的實(shí)驗(yàn)心理學(xué)家，她對幸福的理解要比大多數(shù)普羅百姓深刻得多。她決不會和我們一樣蠢到把自己的幸福僅僅寄托在區(qū)區(qū)一輛新車上，或者寄托在我們都會碰到的那些好運(yùn)上。我們似乎總能適應(yīng)一切，包括幸福感，這種適應(yīng)會讓我們很快回到幸福感的正常水平(這樣就等于沒有了幸福的感覺——譯者注)。關(guān)于“幸福感的適應(yīng)性現(xiàn)象”，70年代曾經(jīng)有一次經(jīng)典的研究，研究對象是樂透彩中獎?wù)?。結(jié)果表明，這些突發(fā)橫財(cái)?shù)闹歇務(wù)咭荒曛蟮男腋８杏X和那些沒中過獎的人已經(jīng)沒有什么差別。這種幸福感的適應(yīng)性現(xiàn)象，可以用來解釋人生中司空見慣的現(xiàn)象。在我們一生中都會面對各種重大變化，如加薪、結(jié)婚、健康和住新家等，為什么這些因素對提高我們個人幸福感的作用都不大呢?不僅如此，對雙胞胎和被領(lǐng)養(yǎng)者的研究結(jié)果也表明，每個人的幸福感水平都有一半左右是生就的。這條“遺傳界線”讓 “裝著幸福的玻璃杯”看上去總有一半是空著的，因?yàn)椴还芡@個杯子里注入多少幸福，高于這條界線的幸福感都注定要慢慢漏掉，幸福感最終都要回到遺傳設(shè)定好的那條界線上。

　　"There's been a tension in the field," explains Lyubomirsky's main collaborator, psychologist Kennon M. Sheldon of the University of Missouri-Columbia. "Some people were assuming you can affect happiness if, for example, you picked the right goals, but there was all this literature that suggested it was impossible, that what goes up must come down."

　　密蘇里-哥倫比亞大學(xué)心理學(xué)家健能·謝爾頓是柳波默斯基的主要合作者，他說：“在幸福感方面，一直存在一種(象彈簧一樣的)應(yīng)力現(xiàn)象。例如，有人以為人是可以干預(yù)幸福感的，只要選準(zhǔn)了正確的人生目標(biāo)，就能做到這一點(diǎn)?？墒歉鞣N有關(guān)的研究文獻(xiàn)都表明，這是完全做不到的，反而表明(一種近乎殘酷的現(xiàn)實(shí))：幸福感上去多少，就得回落多少。”

　　Lyubomirsky, Sheldon and another psychologist, David A. Schkade of the University of California, San Diego, put the existing findings together into a simple pie chart showing what determines happiness. Half the pie is the genetic set point. The smallest slice is circumstances, which explain only about 10 percent of people's differences in happiness. So what is the remaining 40 percent? "Because nobody had put it together before, that's unexplained," Lyubomirsky says. But she believes that when you take away genes and circumstances, what is left besides error must be "intentional activity," mental and behavioral strategies to counteract adaptation's downward pull.

　　柳波默斯基、謝爾頓和另一名心理學(xué)家，即加州大學(xué)圣地亞哥分校德大衛(wèi)·史卡德，把各有關(guān)研究成果綜合起來，并用“蛋糕圖”的形式把影響幸福感的種種因素標(biāo)示出來。這塊蛋糕的一半就是遺傳設(shè)定好的那一半，而最小的那一片蛋糕表示的是環(huán)境因素，說明人們幸福感的差別有10%是由環(huán)境決定的。那么剩余的那40%是什么呢?柳波默斯基說：“由于以前沒人開展過類似的綜合研究，這一塊到現(xiàn)在還講不清楚。”不過她相信的一點(diǎn)是，如果撇開遺傳因素和環(huán)境因素不談，再剔除各種錯誤因子，那么所剩下的那一部分必然是個人的“主觀行為”，即為了抵抗適應(yīng)性的下拉力而必須采取的各種心理對策與行為對策。

　　Lyubomirsky has been studying these activities in hopes of finding out whether and how people can stay above their set point. In theory, that is possible in much the same way regular diet and exercise can keep athletes' weight below their genetic set points. But before Lyubomirsky began, there was "a huge vacuum of research on how to increase happiness," she says. The lottery study in particular "made people shy away from interventions," explains eminent University of Pennsylvania psychologist Martin E. P. Seligman, the father of positive psychology and a mentor to Lyubomirsky. When science had scrutinized happiness at all, it was mainly through correlational studies, which cannot tell what came first--the happiness or what it is linked to--let alone determine the cause and effect. Finding out that individuals with strong social ties are more satisfied with their lives than loners, for example, begs the question of whether friends make us happier or whether happy people are simply likelier to seek and attract friends.

　　柳波默斯基一直在研究的就是這種行為，她希望為人們尋找一種能夠把幸福感長期保持在遺傳基線水平上的各種行為對策。從理論上講，這種行為是必然存在的，這和運(yùn)動員通過加強(qiáng)鍛煉和飲食控制可以把體重控制在遺傳設(shè)定的天生水平以下的做法完全是一回事?？稍诹够埃@個“關(guān)于提高幸福感的研究領(lǐng)域存在一個很大的真空地帶”。柳波默斯基的導(dǎo)師、賓西法尼亞大學(xué)著名心理學(xué)家、積極心理學(xué)奠基人馬丁·舍利格曼解釋說：“有些科學(xué)研究實(shí)際上干擾了人們的正常生活，特別是樂透彩的研究，往往使人們羞于啟齒。”對幸福感的總體情況開展綜合分析的時候，主要都是通過相關(guān)的間接研究進(jìn)行的，這就很難判斷幸福感以及與之相關(guān)的各種因素誰先誰后的關(guān)系，何況判斷其因果關(guān)系。因此，與其直接詢問那些孤獨(dú)的人對自己的生活是否滿意，倒不如去了解那些有廣泛社會關(guān)系的人，例如，可以向他們了解這樣一些問題：朋友是否讓他們感到快樂?或者，快樂的人是否更希望尋求更多的朋友，或者本來就吸引更多的朋友?

　　Lyubomirsky began studying happiness as a graduate student in 1989 after an intriguing conversation with her adviser, Stanford University psychologist Lee D. Ross, who told her about a remarkably happy friend who had lost both parents to the Holocaust. Ross explains it this way: "For this person, the meaning of the Holocaust was that it was indecent or inappropriate to be unhappy about trivial things--and that one should strive to find joy in life and human relationships." Psychologists have long known that different people can see and think about the same events in different ways, but they had done little research on how these interpretations affect well-being.

　　1989年，柳波默斯基本來正在攻讀研究生，后來由于和自己的導(dǎo)師有一次高深的對話，而決定研究幸福感。她的導(dǎo)師里·羅素是斯坦福大學(xué)心理學(xué)家，向她說起他的一個特別懂得快樂的朋友，給她的印象實(shí)在太深刻了。羅素說，這個朋友的父母雙親都在納粹大屠殺中命赴黃泉。羅素解釋說，對于這個懂得快樂的人而言，大屠殺給人的啟示就是，一個人如果因雞毛蒜皮一類的事情而不開心，那就太不合適，甚至太不儒雅了，相反，人應(yīng)該在生活中、在人與人的關(guān)系中努力找到自己的快樂。盡管心理學(xué)家早就知道，不同的人對于同樣的事情可以有不同看法，可是這些看法對個人的幸福感到底有著怎樣的影響，則沒有什么研究。

　　So Lyubomirsky had to lay some groundwork before she could go into the lab. Back then, happiness was "a fuzzy, unscientific topic," she says, and although no instrument yet exists for giving perfectly valid, reliable and precise readings of someone's happiness from session to session, Lyubomirsky has brought scientific rigor to the emerging field. From her firm belief that it is each person's self-reported happiness that matters, she developed a four-question Subjective Happiness Scale. Lyubomirsky's working definition of happiness--"a joyful, contented life"--gets at both the feelings and judgments necessary for overall happiness. (If a sleep-deprived new mom feels fulfilled but frazzled, and an aimless party girl feels empty despite loads of fun, neither would consider herself truly happy.) To this day, she rarely sees her studies' participants; they do most exercises out in the real world and answer detailed questionnaires on the computer, often from home. To assess subjects' efforts and honesty, she uses several cross-checks, such as timing them as they complete the questionnaires.

　　這樣一來，為了能在實(shí)驗(yàn)室里順利開展實(shí)驗(yàn)，柳波默斯基只好先開展一些基礎(chǔ)性工作。她說，在當(dāng)時看來，所謂“幸福感”，只不過是只可意會不可言傳的話題，根本不是什么科學(xué)命題，再說也沒什么科學(xué)儀器可以一層一層地對人的幸福感進(jìn)行掃描和記錄，并得到完全有效、可靠而又精確的讀數(shù)。盡管如此，柳波默斯基還是給這門新生學(xué)科注入了科學(xué)活力。她堅(jiān)信的一點(diǎn)就是，個人主觀上所感覺得到的那種幸福感才是最重要的，因此她設(shè)計(jì)了包含四個問題的“主觀幸福尺度”。柳波默斯基給幸福下了一個實(shí)用的定義，認(rèn)為幸福就是指快樂而又滿足的人生。有了這個定義，就可以給總體幸福提供必要的感覺和判斷依據(jù)。(如果一個剛做媽媽的女人由于睡眠被嬰兒剝奪而感到疲勞不堪;或者一個置身某個晚會的女孩，因?yàn)楹翢o目的，盡管面對的是歡樂的場面仍感到空虛，那么這樣的情形按照柳波默斯基的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)都不能叫做真正的幸福。)如今，柳波默斯基已很少直接面對那些被她研究的對象了，她的研究對象要么在現(xiàn)實(shí)世界里做一些練習(xí)題，要么直接在家里通過電腦回答詳細(xì)的調(diào)查問卷。為了檢驗(yàn)研究對象的真心程度和誠實(shí)水平，她還需要進(jìn)行交叉比對，例如他們每做完一份問卷，就馬上給他們計(jì)時，等等。

　　The research needed to answer questions about lasting happiness is costly, because studies need to follow a sizable group of people over a long time. Two and a half years ago Lyubomirsky and Sheldon received a five-year, class="main">