摘要:了解一個(gè)完全陌生的人，是會(huì)讓人怯步的事情。而閑談天氣或者你的籃球聯(lián)賽競(jìng)猜(風(fēng)靡美國(guó)的賭球運(yùn)動(dòng))，并不能顯示出你倆是否合拍。第一次約會(huì)的問(wèn)答環(huán)節(jié)沒(méi)有什么真正的方法可言，但是如何避免提問(wèn)時(shí)聽(tīng)起來(lái)像給約會(huì)對(duì)象面試工作呢?

　　If first dates make you nervous, you're not alone.

　　Getting to know a complete stranger is a daunting task, and small talk about the weather or your March Madness bracket probably won't shed much light on your compatibility. There's no real way around the initial question-and-answer session, but how can you avoid sounding like you're interviewing your date for a job?

　　第一次約會(huì)緊張?不只你一個(gè)噢。

　　了解一個(gè)完全陌生的人，是會(huì)讓人怯步的事情。而閑談天氣或者你的籃球聯(lián)賽競(jìng)猜(風(fēng)靡美國(guó)的賭球運(yùn)動(dòng))，并不能顯示出你倆是否合拍。第一次約會(huì)的問(wèn)答環(huán)節(jié)沒(méi)有什么真正的方法可言，但是如何避免提問(wèn)時(shí)聽(tīng)起來(lái)像給約會(huì)對(duì)象面試工作呢?

初次約會(huì)必問(wèn)的15個(gè)問(wèn)題

　　Inspired by a Reddit thread on r/AskWomen, we asked our Facebook and Twitter communities what questions they'd love to hear on a first date. Here are 15 suggestions from Redditors and HuffPost Women followers:

　　受Reddit(北美著名社交新聞網(wǎng)站)上一則女性第一次約會(huì)調(diào)查的文章啟發(fā)，我們?cè)谀樧V網(wǎng)和推特上收集了人們第一次約會(huì)時(shí)想聽(tīng)到的問(wèn)題。以下是Reddit用戶(hù)和赫芬頓郵報(bào)的女性讀者給出的15條建議：

　　15 Questions To Ask On A First Date

　　初次約會(huì)15問(wèn)

　　1. "What do you love?"

　　“你喜歡什么?”

　　2. "Tell me your favorite story."

　　“給我講講你最?lèi)?ài)的故事吧。”

　　3. "What was your happiest moment in the past month?"

　　“過(guò)去一個(gè)月里，你什么時(shí)候最開(kāi)心?”

　　4. "How was your day?"

　　“你今天過(guò)得怎么樣?”

　　5. "What is your happiest memory?"

　　“你最快樂(lè)的記憶是什么?”

　　6. "What does your future look like?"

　　“未來(lái)有什么計(jì)劃?”

　　7. "How are you contributing to the world?"

　　“你對(duì)世界的貢獻(xiàn)是什么?”

　　8. "What are your favorite books?"

　　“你最?lèi)?ài)看哪些書(shū)?”

　　9. "Which fictional character do you relate to the most?"

　　“你覺(jué)得哪個(gè)虛構(gòu)的人物特性最像你?”

　　10. "What's your favorite quote?"

　　“你最喜歡的格言是什么?”

　　11. "What do you wish more of your friends would do with you?"

　　“你希望有更多的朋友和你一起做什么事情?”

　　12. "What's your favorite thing about yourself?"

　　“你最?lèi)?ài)自己的哪一點(diǎn)?”

　　13. "Are you spontaneous?"

　　“你是個(gè)隨興的人么?”

　　14. "What motivates you in life?"

　　“你的生活動(dòng)力是什么?”

　　15. "What's the best compliment you've ever received?"

　　經(jīng)典英文愛(ài)情句子:

　　1、Love is not geting but giving.

　　愛(ài)是付出，不是占有。

　　2、If I cried a tear of painful sorrow,If I lost all hope for a new tomorrow,Would you dry my tear and ease my pain,Would you make me smile once again?

　　如果我因深深的悲哀而痛哭，如果我已對(duì)明天失去了所有的希望，你是否會(huì)為我擦去淚水，撫平傷痛，你是否會(huì)讓我歡顏依舊?

　　3、If you love the life you live,you will live a life of love.

　　如果你愛(ài)你的生活，你的生活就會(huì)充滿(mǎn)愛(ài)。

　　4、how do i say i love you? how do i tell you i care? how do i tell you ive missed you, and let you know im here?

　　我如何說(shuō)我愛(ài)你?我如何告訴你我在乎你?我如何告訴你我一直都在想你?如何讓你知道我就在這里?

　　5、Love cures people both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.

　　愛(ài)能醫(yī)人奉獻(xiàn)者和接受者皆然。

　　6、Her gesture, motion, and her smiles,Her wit, her voice my heart beguiles,Beguiles my heart, I know not why,And yet, Ill love her till I die. Thomas Ford.

　　她的一舉一動(dòng)，她的一顰一笑;她的聰慧，她的聲音將我的心俘虜;將我的心俘虜。我不明白個(gè)中緣由，但我會(huì)愛(ài)她到永遠(yuǎn)。

　　7、For years I had been searching,For that perfect fantasy, But, I find it in my arms, right now,You are all to me.

　　我已經(jīng)尋找了多年，為了那個(gè)美麗的夢(mèng)想，但是，現(xiàn)在，我發(fā)現(xiàn)它就在我的臂彎里，你就是我的全部。

　　8、Where there is great love. there are great miracles.

　　哪里有愛(ài)，哪里就有奇跡。

　　9、I just wish someday and somehow,We can be back together, Together well stay,Always and forever.

　　我只希望有那么一天，不管怎樣;我們能重新在一起;相依相伴，直到永遠(yuǎn)!

　　10、A joyful heart is the inevitable result of a heart burning with love.

　　內(nèi)心只要有愛(ài)在燃燒，就不然有快樂(lè)。

　　11、Love and you will be loved.

　　愛(ài)人，你就會(huì)被人愛(ài)。

　　12、Dont worry about looking handsome,Or being strong and brave.Just as you love me unconditionally,I love you just the same.

　　不要擔(dān)心自己是否英俊，是否強(qiáng)壯，是否勇敢，我將無(wú)條件地愛(ài)你，就象你無(wú)條件地愛(ài)我一樣。